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Live from Pai, Thailand. Coaching worldwide.

Spacelordvs.The comfort zone

A 90-day, one-to-one coaching programme for men 30–60 who are ready to start again: a clearer head, a stronger body and a direction you believe in.

Book a discovery call

Free, 30 minutes on video. Opens Instagram to arrange a time.

Rob sparring at Charnchai Muay Thai.

You know there's more. You haven't moved yet.

  • Successful on paper

    But the routine feels like someone else's life, and you know there's more.

  • Your health has slipped

    Energy, sleep, weight, focus. You want to feel sharp and strong again.

  • Thinking about a big move

    A new country, a new career, a new start, and you want to do it right.

  • Stuck in your own head

    The same thoughts on repeat. You need direction, not more motivation.

In Rob's words

  • The quality of your life is the quality of your thoughts.
  • The comfort zone is a beautiful place. But nothing grows there.
  • Make everything your fault. Your life is a reflection of your choices.
  • Movement is medicine.
Rob throwing a kick in the Muay Thai ring in Pai
Rob smiling on a coaching call

It's not too late to start again.

I followed the script: career, targets, the lot. On paper it worked. Inside, I knew I was running someone else's life.

So I rebuilt it from the ground up. I moved from the UK to Pai in Northern Thailand. I trained Muay Thai, learned breathwork, got back into nature and took responsibility for every thought, word and action.

Now I help men do the same, without having to work it all out alone.

The work

Awareness
Mind
Take control of your thoughts. Breathwork, meditation and honest questions to break the loops that keep you stuck.
Discipline
Body
Muay Thai, strength training, meal prep, sleep. Get in the best shape of your life, and keep it.
Direction
Life
Career, relationships, living abroad. Make the big calls with clarity and act on them.

90 days, four rounds

A simple structure you can follow, with someone holding you to it. Calls are on video, wherever you are.

  1. Round 1

    Discovery call

    Free, 30 minutes. Where you are, where you want to be, and whether we're a fit.

  2. Round 2

    Your blueprint

    A clear 90-day plan for mind, body and direction, built around your life.

  3. Round 3

    Weekly 1:1 calls

    Accountability, adjustments and straight talk, every week for 90 days.

  4. Round 4

    Pai immersion

    Optional: train with me in Pai. Muay Thai, breathwork and a full reset.

Book a discovery call

Pricing is shared on the call, once we both know it's a fit.

Red corner

In your corner if

  • You're 30–60 and ready for a new chapter
  • You'll take responsibility for your results
  • You want honesty, not hype
  • You'll show up, do the work and train

Blue corner

Not your fight if

  • You want a quick fix or a magic pill
  • You're looking for someone to agree with you
  • You're not willing to change your routine

Ready to start again?

Thirty minutes. No pitch until we both know it's a fit. Just an honest conversation about where you are.

Book a discovery call

Free, 30 minutes on video. Opens Instagram to arrange a time.

Want to train in person? Join Rob and Kai on a retreat in Pai.